I’m grateful I learned how to change the game. Understanding the power of perspective (thoughts and beliefs) and how every perspective is aligned with the energy of love, abundance, and peace or fear, lack, and separation changed the entire game for me. I found out I no longer had to be prisoner of any perspectives that don’t serve my highest good. I found out that I don’t have to believe any perspectives that don’t feel right inside of me. I learned that my power lies in my ability to take personal responsibility and accountability for what energy I’m projecting out into the world. NO ONE is capable of changing the game for me. Only I have the power to do it for MY life.
When I align my energy with love, abundance, and peace, I attract more of it. When I align my energy with fear, lack, and separation, I attract more of it. Changing the game is about changing the energy I put out. I can’t fool the Universe. My energy is my energy until I do the work to change it—for better or for worse. I only have the power to change the game when I’m willing to look at myself and where my energy is really aligned.
I feel invigorated just writing these words. My fingers are moving so fast as this simple truth in my life flows out of me. Perspective is our power or our prison. It’s not about how anyone else is making the choices for their lives. It’s about how I’m CHOOSING to live my life. I’m the only person who has to live with me from the cradle to the grave. If I want to live my best life, I have to make sure that I’m aligning myself with the best ways to do that.

Today, I commit to empowering myself to change the game. I don’t just get to make this commit once and then BOOM! The game is changed. I have to reflect daily on where I played into a game that wasn’t mine. I have to be accountable and responsible for the plays that were aligned with fear, lack, and separation instead of love, abundance, and peace. I have question my choices and acknowledge if there are choices that I can make that are better aligned with how I want to be living my life. I have to look at the people I’m CHOOSING to surround myself with. What are they contributing? What am I contributing to their lives?
I find it’s very clear on the energy I’m projecting out by the people who are close to me at any given moment. When I’m in the energy of fear, lack, and separation, I attract people with matching energy to me. Even if on the outside it looks like I’m projecting love, abundance, and peace, my energy doesn’t lie. I attract what I’m aligned with. The longer I resist that I’m not where I am, the deeper I get into the energy of fear, lack, and separation. This can happen in one area of my life or all areas of my life. It all depends on my willingness to make moves to change the game.
The only path to empowering myself to change the game is by being honest with myself about where my energy is right now. Until I do that, I will just blindly follow where my energy takes me. Staying aligned with the energy of love, abundance, and peace takes remaining conscious in the present moment. We can’t make powerful moves if we don’t look where our feet are and how that aligns with the next step we want to make.
It takes effort to stay in the energy of fear, lack, and separation, and it takes effort to stay in the energy of love, abundance, and peace. We can fool ourselves with messages that one is HARDER than the other. The one that is easiest is the one that is the habit. If staying in the energy of fear, lack, and separation feels easier, that’s the sign of where our energy is the majority of the time. We can only take our power back when we realize the power we are giving away.
Tip: Get an audiobook that really resonates with you on how you WANT to be living. Play parts of the book that resonate with what you are working on repeatedly. The repetition will help it all sink in. This is why it was so important to me to have an audiobook of Letters from a Better Me. I know how much it helped me to work on specific areas I was struggling with. I wanted to offer my readers the same tool. I’m so grateful for Blackstone Publishing and Kate Mulligan (the narrator) for making the book come alive in this way. I’ve listened to it during the pandemic as a reminder of where I was putting my energy, because even though I write the words, I have to make them a practice in my life just like everyone else in order for them to work. You can check out a free preview of the audiobook or on Kindle at Amazon.com. Links are below in the title.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,
©Rachael Wolff 2021
Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World (Click title for more information)