I’m grateful for instant connections. I love these beautiful relationships! Most of my closest friends came from instant connections. There is something that happens energetically that can’t be explained and as time goes on, we KNOW this person was meant to be in our lives in a very impactful way.

The friendship below started with two 4-year olds hiding on the opposite sides of a rock. The other image comes from an encounter at the end of my driveway over 13 years ago. I’ve had similar experiences happen with friends from school, from my kids’ school, writing my book, and most recently the pandemic. These relationships are instantly rewarding. I light up from a conversation, and it doesn’t matter how I was feeling at the beginning of it. Some of these people I’ve never met in person, we speak on video calls, which I’ve found is just as rewarding (I never thought I would say that). I feel so honored and blessed to have these special relationships in my life.

Today, I commit to enjoying the people I feel connected to from a loving place. We have the ability to connect instantly with people from the energy of love, abundance, and peace OR fear, lack, and separation. If we are connected to someone from a place of fear, lack, and separation, the drama follows. YES, whoever you are thinking about right now, is one of them. This isn’t an attack on that person, it’s simply an energy thing. We have to be putting out the energy in order to attract it back to us. There is NO judgment here, just be aware of when you feel drawn to reach out to the person. Are you looking for a person to bitch with, commiserating with, or gossip with? If so, we are in the energy of fear, lack, and separation when we are pulled to talk to this person. If a relationship comes from a loving place, we are solution oriented. We are willing to look at ourselves of the cause and the solution for the ways we are thinking. We focus on what we can change, and when we vent, it’s quick. The whole conversation doesn’t revolve around it.

I know if someone is drawn to talk to me, they are looking for solutions. They may explain the story going on in their heads, but they have no expectation that I will go down with them. That’s the difference, we are all going to go through hard times, but when we are in a friendship connected from the energy of love, abundance, and peace, we help move each other out of those dark spots. We don’t want or expect a person to come down to our level of pain. We don’t take it out of them when our feelings don’t match, because our underlying energies are still aligned.

The beauty of the people I’ve felt instant connections with is that there is a level of honesty and vulnerability that makes it possible to grow exponentially! This is one of the many reasons I enjoy these relationships SO MUCH! I believe all relationships are God sent, because even the ones entrenched with the energy of fear, lack, and separation, I learned from. The ones that come from love, and I mean the truest form of love (which I’ve talked about many times on this blog), are the ones that make my soul sing. These are the relationships I’ve leaned on throughout the years. These are the relationships that last beyond time and distance. When a person I’m connected to reappears in my life after being dormant for some time, I know they are there for a reason. Usually, it’s because one of us is about to go through a growth spurt (which can be very painful) and the other person will help us through it.

If we want to align with love, abundance, and peace, we want to make sure our relationships are aligning from there. If we fuel relationships that are born from the energy of fear, lack, and separation, we only make that energy stronger within us. I know I need to be conscious of the energy I’m putting into relationships in order to ensure that I’m staying aligned.

I’ve fought my feelings of discomfort plenty of times with people. Those are the ones I try to connect to, but I just don’t. I’m learning more and more to trust that and let them go sooner rather than later, because it never ends pretty when I’m trying to deny my intuition. I like to think of magnets, if I’m meant to align with someone, our magnetic forces pull us together. If I’m not, they push us apart. No judgment, it’s about trusting our own energy and what it’s bringing to our lives. So people can seem like a perfect fit on the outside, but on the inside they are NOT at all.

I will continue to enjoy all my connections that come from a loving place.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2020

Author of Letters from a Better Me

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