Today’s aligning is about the people who show up in our lives. Since writing the originally piece in 2020, I’m only more grateful now for the incredible people in my life. I wish I could explain how important it is to have friends of the same sex and make time for them even if you are in a romantic relationship. No one person can be everything to us. That is way to much pressure to put on someone. It doesn’t allow people to shine being who they are. Not giving time to our same-sex friends while we are in a relationship, can also keep us from seeing red flags in toxic relationships, It’s a giant red flag if our romantic partners don’t want us to have friends or try to isolate us from the people we love. That’s one of the ways they have power over us.
The beautiful thing about aligning with the energy of love, abundance, and peace is that our friendships are a reflection of the energy we project. Whatever we have living inside of us, will be reflected back to us in the people we choose to spend our time with. Just a quick example before we get started with today’s aligning. When I struggled or slip into a period of low self-esteem, I attract people around me who gossip and harshly judge others, and I’m right there with them. When I’m aligned with love, abundance, and peace, all the friends that like to do that just fade to the background and I’m attracted to people who are focused on just being the best person they can be, and we work through perspectives that are holding us back together. I just find how energy works SO FASCINATING! My observations there are a big part of the reason, I do everything I can to find perspectives to keep my energy from hating people who thrive on hating others, because if I give them that energy, I’m in the EXACT energy that fuels their toxic behavior.
So, let’s put our focus on the energy we want to see more of in the world.
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Today’s Daily Aligning
Love
Today, I commit to telling three people how much they mean to me.
Reach out to at least three people today via text, email, letter, call, or visit letting them know how grateful you are for them.
Abundance
I’m so grateful to people in my life who show up whenever I call, and even when I don’t.
Who are these people?
Peace
Today, I commit to sitting in reflection of the love I have in my heart for the people in my life.
You choose the amount of time you give to this. How does it feel in your body to experience the love in your heart for others?
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