Today’s aligning is dedicated to appreciating new friendships. These can be friendships that have developed within the last few years or ones that have re-surfaced after long periods of time. If you are giving time and commitment to these friendships now, they are worth celebrating.
I imagine if you are anything like me, while you appreciate these new friendships, the old friendships that are still actively present in your life will light up in your mind like a beautiful firework. So, yes, celebrate those too. Really anything that aligns us with the energy of love, abundance, and peace works.
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If you are struggling with staying in the energy of love, abundance, and peace while thinking about your friendships, the key is not letting your energy slip into guilt, shame, blame, resentment, regret, or anything that resembles fear, lack, and separation.
For instance, if you have underlying anger towards a friend for something they did or the way your friendship went or is going, that puts you in the energy of fear, lack, and separation.
The first things to work on is acceptance and forgiveness. It’s not for them, it’s for you. Because it’s your energy that we are concerned with moving from fear, lack, and separation to love, abundance, and peace. We can’t change other people. The only person’s energy we are 100% responsible and accountable for is our own.
One of the ways I do this is trusting energy. I see all my relationships like magnets. I know I’ve mentioned these magnets before. Imagine two old school magnets. If they are flipped one way, they attract each other. If they are flipped the other way, they repel each other.
If someone is meant to be in my life for a period of time, our energies will be attracted to each other. If our energies are not in the right place to support each other, the energies will repel each other.
There is no judgment in this. It just is what it is. Sometimes when one friend goes out for a while, it leaves space for new friendships to come in. I just truly believe that everything happens for a reason, so I trust if someone is in my life presently, it’s because they are meant to be. If someone isn’t in my life presently, it’s because they are not meant to be. We all have our own journeys filled with learning, growing, and sometimes struggling.
When we find the space to release and let go of the stories in our heads holding us back, we thrive.
From A Loving Place 