Today’s aligning is all about expecting others to do or be what we are not being an example of ourselves. I have to really watch this one especially with my children and my romantic partner. I can easily slip into the energy of fear, lack, and separation when I expecting them to behave a specific way. How many of you have spun yourselves into a tizzy of stories being let down by your expectations of someone else? I can tell you, I see it ALL OVER social media. This is a way to stay aligned with love, abundance, and peace instead.
The thing I love about making these into podcasts is when I need a specific episode as a reminder, like this one, I can just keep playing it over and over until I stop spinning.
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Today’s Daily Aligning
Love
I commit to being the ideal partner to myself today by…
Abundance
I’m grateful to be my life partner today for these reasons…
Peace
Today, I commit to my peace by doing…
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This is another topic that can be really challenging. I know we want to defend our expectations, but I want you to really think about how having the expectation affects YOUR energy. One of the questions many of us have been taught to ask is, how important is it? Our expectations of others often come from the energy of fear, lack, and separation. Is it worth being in that energy? How can you show up for yourself instead of having an expectation on someone else? With kids, this could mean having a chore list what needs to get done, and when it doesn’t get done there on natural consequences. If they don’t do them, that’s there lesson to learn. We don’t HAVE to engage in the energy of fear, lack, and separation if we don’t want to. When we want someone to show us love differently than they are, how do we show ourselves that love? When we raise our energy up, people will rise up to meet us, or there will be a safe energetic distance that keeps them away. Learning to trust how energy works is key to keeping ourselves in the energy of love, abundance, and peace more than fear, lack, and separation. I hope that helps.
From A Loving Place 