90-Day A Better Me Letters Series
Part I: A Journey of Awareness
What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation
Day 27: When I Put My Value Outside of Myself
Letters from a Better Me
I’m seeing the consequences of putting my value outside of myself. I’ve hurt my relationships by having unrealistic expectations of others. I’ve hurt myself by trying to get people to value me and ignoring their incapability to do so. I focused on pleasing others instead of making sure what I was doing felt best for me. I compromised myself well beyond what felt right. I suffered endlessly by blaming my lack of value on others.
My body felt constantly tight and my stomach was having issues regularly. Weight piled on because I didn’t value my health. I didn’t feel comfortable in my own skin. I felt constantly weighted down by trying to be perfect so that I didn’t disappoint someone. It’s just not healthy. I kept attracting energy I didn’t want.
I realize that if I don’t see the value in myself I’m attracting people who won’t see my value either. I’m committed to becoming aware of when I’m trying to find my value outside of myself. I want to be confident in the person I am, so the people I attract to my life know their own value. I know what I put out is what I get back.
I’m ready to see where I can improve my vision of myself to project out to the world. I want to attract a healthy lifestyle with healthy people. In order to do that I need to become as healthy as I can be. I need to be aware when I’m not showing myself the love and respect I deserve.
I’m grateful for the lessons I’ve learned from not seeing my value. They have taught me to be accountable for my feelings, thoughts, actions, and reactions. I have to be better in order to attract better to my life. I commit to being a better me.
With Love and Gratitude,
A Better Me
Rachael Wolff ©2019
“Day 27: Looking for Value Outside of Ourselves”on the 90-Day A Better Me Series is available to explore this topic deeper.