Letters From A Better Me

90-Day A Better Me Letters Series

Part I: A Journey of Awareness

What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation

Day 16: How I’m Perpetuating the Blame Cycle

Dear Self,

It’s time to take some responsibility in how I’m perpetuating the blame cycle. When I blame others for how I view my life, I’m perpetuating the blame cycle. When I’m blaming others for their influence on the world, I’m perpetuating the blame cycle. When I sit and point fingers left and right and don’t take into consideration what I’m doing, I’m perpetuating the blame cycle.

If I’m engaging in thoughts that tear people down over their mistakes, I’m perpetuating the blame cycle. If I’m putting my intentions and perceptions onto other people’s actions because I feel I’m right and their wrong, I’m perpetuating the blame cycle. If I beat myself up for being different than I want to be in my thoughts, feelings, actions, looks, and beliefs, I’m perpetuating the blame cycle.

I can take personal responsibility for my thoughts, feelings, actions, and reactions without giving energy to the negative power of blame. Perpetuating the blame cycle is a choice I make consciously and sometime unconsciously. I will do better to make more conscious efforts to be aware of how I’m perpetuating blame in my thinking.

I’m committed to being the best version of me I can be.

With Love and Gratitude,

A Better Me

Rachael Wolff ©2019

Don’t forget to read today’s companion piece: 90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 16 – Perpetuating the Blame Cycle