Letters from A Better Me

90-Day A Better Me Letters Series

Part I: A Journey of Awareness

What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation

Day 20: Judgment in My Intimate Relationships

Dear Self,

I can see where I’ve used judgment in my relationships to disguise how I’m really feeling. I see that sometimes I have unconscious belief systems that are getting in the way of me being a loving partner. I’ve noticed that my judgments on how I think love should be have helped me to create an illusion with my partner.

I’m committed to seeing my partner for who they are, free of judgmental thinking. I’m committed to not trying to make my partner someone they are not to suit my needs. I’m committed to showing myself self-love and self-respect so that I can maintain clear and healthy boundaries. Keeping my health, safety, and care at the top of my priority list, I will know if this relationship is what is best for me and the person I am and/or working towards being.

I will show my partner respect by approaching differences with a curious heart. I want to know my partner better. I want to love and understand the person they are and who they want to be.

With Love and Gratitude,

A Better Me

Rachael Wolff ©2019

Make sure to read today’s companion piece 90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 20 – Judgment in Our Intimate Relationships