Category: life lessons
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 12 – The Layers of Shame

Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 12: The Layers of Shame “Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It’s the fear that we’re not good enough.” -Brené Brown We have spent from Day 7 until today on shame. We have looked at the subject of shame on…
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90-Day A Better Me Letters Series: Day 12 – Learning from My Layers of Shame

Letters From A Better Me 90-Day A Better Me Letters Series Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation DAY 12: Learning from My Layers of Shame Dear Self, I’m ready to learn from all the shame you’ve been holding onto. I’m ready to look at my past through a…
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90-Day A Better Me Letters Series: Day 11 – My Participation in the Shame Cycle

Letters From A Better Me 90-Day A Better Me Letters Series Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 11: My Participation in the Shame Cycle Dear Self, I’m committing to you to stay aware of my participation in the shame cycle. As I watch what is happening in…
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 11 – Projecting Shame

Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 11: Projecting Shame “Shame erodes our courage and fuels our disengagement.” -Brené Brown Yesterday, we went through a list of ways we live in our shame. Most of them focused mainly on how choices and beliefs of living in our…
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90-Day A Better Me Letters Series: Day 10 – Living My Shame

Letters From A Better Me 90-Day A Better Me Letters Series Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 10: Living My Shame To the Shame I’m Living In, My eyes are open wide now. I’m ready to look at where I’ve let you drive my life. There are…
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 10 – Living in Our Shame

Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 10: Living In Our Shame “Shame corrodes the very part of us that believes we are capable of change.” -Brené Brown Yesterday, I opened up the thought of our reality being the reflection of what is going on inside of us.…
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 9 – The Secret of Shame

90-Day A Better Me Letters Series Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 9: The Secret of Shame “Shame needs three things to grow exponentially in our lives: Secrecy, silence, and judgment.” -Brené Brown Shhhh…If they know you, they will see how pathetic you are. If they knew…
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90-Day A Better Me Letters Series: Day 8 – Bringing Awareness to My Childhood Shame

Letters From A Better Me 90-Day A Better Me Letters Series Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 8: Bringing Awareness to My Childhood Shame Dear Inner Child, I’m so sorry that I’ve looked over your pain for so long. I didn’t realize that my avoidance of looking…
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 8 – Childhood Shame

90-Day A Better Me Series Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 8: Childhood Shame “Shame is the lie someone told you about yourself.” -Anais Nin Some of us go through life not wanting to look back on our childhoods. When we do, we may choose only to…
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90-Day A Better Me Letters Series: Day 7 – Facing My Unstable Foundation of Shame

Letters From A Better Me 90-Day A Better Me Letters Series Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 7: Facing My Unstable Foundation of Shame To the Unstable Foundation of Shame, I’m ready to face you. You can’t hide from me any longer. I’m tired of you taking…
