Category: #PerspectiveChallenge
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#PerspectiveChallenge: You Have to Work Hard to Succeed
PERSPECTIVE: YOU HAVE TO WORK HARD TO SUCCEED This is a very common perspective—naturally. I’ve heard it all growing up and I continue to hear it. I’ve heard it as a compliment on countless occasion. I’ve heard community leaders, inspirers, entrepreneurs, teachers, and business leaders preach these words. Some people have a positive reaction to…
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#PerspectiveChallenge: People Suck
PERSPECTIVE: PEOPLE SUCK There is a difference between not liking a particular person’s choice and the belief PEOPLE SUCK. When we tell ourselves and/or anyone who will listen that people suck, we are asking the Universe to show us the people who suck. We put our focus on seeing it. There could be an unhealthy…
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#PerspectiveChallenge: I’m NOT Where I’m Supposed to Be
PERSPECTIVE: I’M NOT WHERE I’M SUPPOSED TO BE The belief, I’m not where I’m supposed to be can be debilitating. Instantly it puts us in the mindset that focuses us on what we don’t want. That energy flows out of us like toxic sludge. Other people do and will pick up on it. If it…
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#PerspectiveChallenge: Love Hurts
PERSPECTIVE: LOVE HURTS I hear this one a lot, and at one point in my life, I would fully agree. First, I want you to think about what your definition of love is where you can say that love is what hurts you. I’m going to get personal with you here because this is obviously…
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#PerspectiveChallenge: Money is Evil
PERSPECTIVE: MONEY IS EVIL If anything guarantees you a horrible relationship with money, it’s telling yourself and the Universe that money is evil. If money is evil, anytime you have money you will sabotage it staying in your life. If money is evil, you make excuses for some people’s poor choices and look past others…
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#PerspectiveChallenge: People Can’t Change
PERSPECTIVE: PEOPLE CAN’T CHANGE What we CHOOSE to believe in our lives is true. It will form our realities and our judgments of ourselves and others. When we believe that people can’t change, in turn we are saying we can’t change. Our advice and communications with others and ourselves will reflect that belief. People can’t…
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#PerspectiveChallenge: I’m Stupid, Ugly, and Unlovable
PERSPECTIVE: I’M STUPID, UGLY, AND UNLOVABLE When we label ourselves, we will do, think, and feel things to prove the label true. When we choose words that coming from someone else would be considered bullying or abusive, we are bullying and abusing ourselves. If it’s normal to treat ourselves that way, wouldn’t it feel normal…
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#PerspectiveChallenge: I, We, He, She, They, or It Should Have
PERSPECTIVE: I, WE, HE, SHE, THEY, OR IT SHOULD HAVE We can give should a lot of power over our lives if we are not careful. I don’t care who we are shoulding. When we should a person or situation, we are fighting the reality of what is. Shoulding is a form of shaming ourselves…
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#PerspectiveChallenge: That Is SO True
PERSPECTIVE: THAT IS SO TRUE I, like many, find myself saying this when I see positive quotes, read articles, go to seminars, watch TV, and talk to like-minded people. This statement can feel great when we feel and/or say it. It wasn’t until I started my From A Loving Place Facebook page that I realized…
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#PerspectiveChallenge: I Can’t Stand When People Use the Word…
PERSPECTIVE: I CAN’T STAND WHEN PEOPLE USE THE WORD… Our attachment to words can create a lot of conflict in our lives, and often times when other people use the words that we HATE they aren’t using them in the same way as we are interpreting them. I’m amazed at the amount of verbal attacks…
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