Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #163

I’m grateful to be a lifelong learner. I believe the best version of ourselves is being open to learn, shift, and grow in and out of beliefs that align us with love, abundance, and peace. If you are wondering what I mean by that, I mean there is never one way of aligning with love, abundance, and peace. We get to try all different ways and decide which way works best for us. If and when that way stops working or we just outgrow the energy, we expand and learn a way that works better for us. I love staying open to learning because that also means my brain is open to form new neural pathways. When I do that, I release more of the things that are no longer working in my life, and I teach my brain to work more efficiently for me. I find that pretty amazing! I love the classroom of life. Some lessons have been gut-wrenching, but I learned incredible lessons from being open to learn from EVERY trauma I’ve faced. I loved going back to school in my thirties after having been through so much. I feel like I got so much more out of the experience. I’ve faced moments of my own ignorance that made me a better person today, especially in the area of human rights. I learned as much from my classmates as I did from some of my professors.

I love listening to people’s stories, because their unique perspective has something beautiful to teach me whether I agree with them or not. As long as I’m aligned with love, abundance, and peace, I remain open to learn things that will better me. If I’m aligned with fear, lack, and separation, I will learn more and more to stay aligned in that energy. This is why I stay FAR away from FEAR agenda material. I can learn and become aware of the evils of the world by studying the psychology, cultural anthropology, cult mentality, and sociology without aligning with fear agenda.

Aligning my learning with love, abundance, and peace doesn’t mean I put my head in the sand. It means I research people, events, history, and perspectives with an open mind. I do my best not to put people in categories of groups. When I do that, I can’t learn. I can’t see. I’m denying a person their humanity of what brought them to where they are now, and that can mean for better or for worse. This is how we miss red flags when we believe us against them thinking. We get stuck in fear, lack, and separation energy. When we feed that, we don’t see that each person has an agenda. Some will use their agendas for good, and others will use them to keep people in fear, lack, and separation because they can control people better there.

I learn so much from where I’ve fallen into these traps and when I’ve watched others. When we are aligned with fear, lack, and separation our minds are closed to learn from love, abundance, and peace because the two energies don’t align. We can’t be in one and be open to see the other. If we are in fear, lack, and separation we aren’t even seeing a clear definition of what love is, because if we did, we would see what we are buying into doesn’t match up.

My blindness led me to ten years of being emotionally and mentally abused by a narcissist. By the time I got help, I felt like an empty shell. I believed I deserved the abuse. Everything I was learning about was linked to staying in the energy of fear, lack, and separation because that is how he kept his power and control over me. After many prayers asking for help, and reading books that started to open my eyes, I started to align with love, abundance, and peace. Miracle after miracle happened to open me up to learn and grow from the place of love, abundance, and peace. When I finally walked out the door. My heart was at peace.

I spent the next four and a half years in college learning everything I could about humans, their behaviors, passed down patterns, religious belief systems, history human rights, and psychosis. I keep my mind open to any place I can learn from a place of understanding instead of judgment. When I’m tied to beliefs that make me judge a person or group, I’m closed to learning and understanding that group. I strip myself of the ability to potentially help a person if I do that, and I love helping individuals who want the help.

I’m grateful to be a lifelong learner because it has also helped me to see that it’s okay to make mistakes. My mistakes don’t define me (no matter what someone else thinks). It’s what I do after I make the mistake that holds my growth potential.

Today, I commit to learning from what hasn’t worked and celebrating what does. We have to be open and honest with ourselves in order to do this. We have to be willing to see ourselves clearly. This is why I wrote my book, Letters from a Better Me the way that I did. We can’t learn what isn’t working until we open our eyes to fully see it. Then, once we see it, we have to accept ourselves and move into the place of forgiveness in order to shift into actions aligned with love, abundance, and peace. This is a process. This is why I write every day. I need to do the work to keep me in a growth mindset. This is why it’s important for us not to numb our feelings. I have to look at what my feelings are there to teach me in order for them not to have the power to control my life.

I’ve learned to take cues from my body when it’s telling me a thought or belief doesn’t work for me. If a belief comes from love, abundance, and peace, I feel expanded. If I feel a thought or belief comes from fear, lack, and separation, I feel restricted. One causes me stress and the other brings me peace. Be with the feeling whatever it is.

  • What is it there to teach you?
  • When have you felt this feeling before?
  • Do you remember the first time you’ve felt this feeling in your body?
  • Is any energy of fear, lack, and separation attached to this feeling?
  • What are some perspectives that could help you move into the energy of love, abundance, and peace?

We have to be willing to learn from what is inside of us because that is where all our outside beliefs and attachments come from. This is where we create our view of reality from. If we want to align with love, abundance, and peace, we have to see where we are still holding onto fear, lack, and separation. Remember, we can’t be in both energies at the same time. Wherever we are, is where our focus is. Which energy do you want to learn and absorb your life lessons from? The choice is up to us.

  • How do you want to live your life?
  • What have you learned that is working to align yourself with life you want to be living?
  • What isn’t working?
  • What do you need to change to make what isn’t working work?
  • Where can you go to learn more to help you change what isn’t working? If you don’t know the answer to this question, pray, meditate, and ask to be open to see the answer. Then watch for the answer to reveal itself. If you are open, it will. If you really don’t want to change and/or learn, it won’t.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021

Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World

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Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #162

I’m grateful for my choice to step away from the chaos. I knew if I wanted to align my energy with love, abundance, and peace, staying in the chaos is not an option. Every time I slip down into the chaos, I’m aligning with fear, lack, and separation. I don’t think straight in that place. My focus is on problems instead of solutions. I slam doors instead of looking for ones that lead to better places. When I move into the peaceful mind, I see more options in perspectives. I listen to others who are speaking from the heart, even if that looks different. I don’t BELIEVE that what I think is the only way. Chaos closes the mind. Peace opens the mind.

Today, I commit to staying away from chaos. Today, I’m going to keep myself busy with self-care, spending time with family, and doing a project at home. Doing these things will help me keep my head in gratitude and contributing to the best version of myself who is aligned with love, abundance, and peace.

If you find yourself scrolling through chaos, whether it is in your mind or on one of your devices, come up with a list of things that you want to accomplish today. If you can add music that makes you feel good or a audiobook that keeps you in the mindset of love, abundance, and peace. At the end of the day write a gratitude list. Notice how much better you feel when you are focusing on what you can change. Instead of focusing your energy on the things you can’t.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021

Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World

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Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #161

I’m grateful I have self-worth. When we don’t have self-worth, we become doormats, victims, prey, and attackers. Lack of self-worth attracts people and situations that align us with fear, lack, and separation. However we treat ourselves, is what we will make acceptable for the way we treat others and the way they treat ourselves. READ THAT AGAIN. The way we hurt others will look different, maybe we will gossip, abuse, personally attack, manipulate, demean, or judge them unfairly by not seeing their humanity. When we are acting in our healthiest minds, we don’t call names, we don’t ignite violence, we don’t blame everyone else without being accountable and responsible for our own actions. We do those things when we feel threatened or judged as less than, not enough, and wronged. Sometimes we are victim of other people’s poor choices, but if we have a strong sense of worth, we see them for who they are and we take responsibility for our energy that we are contributing—And show them the example of a person that doesn’t try to rise by taking others down.

Revenge mentality comes from aligning with fear, lack, and separation. Forgiveness mentality comes from aligning with love, abundance, and peace. It takes a great deal of self-worth to not seek revenge. If we find ourselves saying, “Well they did (blank), so they deserve (blank).” We all know that two wrongs don’t make a right. Healthy thinking can see that we can be a victim of something without taking on a victim mentality, which once again comes from fear, lack, and separation.

Now, after we ARE victimized, most of us won’t jump into a healthy self-worth mindset. I know it took me YEARS to tell my brain new stories. I know some don’t take that long, but I had to get to a very dark place in order to realize that my hate for others, no matter how justified it feels, is poison running through MY veins. I had to have the self-worth to be responsible and accountable for what I was allowing to fester inside of me.

I learned that I have NO control of what other people do, but I definitely know what I want to contribute to the world and what I want my legacy to be. Some days are better than others. Some days it takes me a little longer to realize how I’m treating myself by the energy I’m putting out there, but I simply do my best. I keep learning and growing. When my self-worth was non-existent, I couldn’t stand making mistakes. I attacked myself in the worst ways. Unfortunately others also get hurt in our wakes when our self-worth isn’t there, because we can’t see how dark we are being—It’s normal to us.

When I found my own worth, it helped me spot when other people were lacking it. If someone is attacking someone else’s value as a human being, I promise you that person doesn’t have self-worth. They may try to make people think they do by telling others how great they are, but someone who feels great about themselves, doesn’t think of themselves as better or less than any other human. If someone wants you to put them on a pedestal, that’s not someone with a healthy sense of worth. They don’t have to tell us how great they are by putting others down. When someone is secure in themselves, it’s obvious. They are aligned with love, abundance, and peace. That’s the gift of a healthy self-worth.

Most of us will not be able to stay aligned with love, abundance, and peace 100% of the time. There is a lot to learn from the times we slide into fear, lack, and separation. With a strong sense of self-worth, we don’t beat ourselves up for the slide. We recognize, apologize (to ourselves and/or others), and change our behaviors. When I started treating myself the way I deserved, other people treated me that way too.

Today, I commit to appreciating the person I am, just the way I am! I might have said this before, but it’s one worth repeating if I did. When I accept and love myself, I allow myself to be aligned with love, abundance, and peace. This makes my day go so much smoother. The reason is because I’m not spending time in the energy of fear of acceptance. I’m not spending my day in lack of what I’m not, what I can’t have, and what I think I deserve but I’m not getting. I don’t spend my day envying someone else’s life, comparing or resenting, which separates me from another human.

I know whichever energy I feed: Love or fear; abundance or lack; peace or separation—I MAKE THE CHOICE! It’s way too easy to fall into the abyss of chaos if my self-worth can be moved by someone outside of me. I love feeling empowered to make conscious choices to align my energy. I can only do that with a clear head. I love when I fill myself with the stories of how much I’ve grown, my strengths, my openness to learn, and the qualities that make me—ME. I’ve learned to appreciate the unique person I am. Today, I will spend time enjoying the person I love being and the only person I can be.

I give from a loving place when I’m not trying to gain worth in my doing for others. When my worth is already there, everything I do for others adds to my abundance of love, service, and hope. If what I say resonates with you, make sure to scroll down and follow me here on From a Loving Place.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2020

Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World

Today’s post is dedicated to my beautiful friend D.C. Stanfa. D.C, was one of the first people to write an endorsement for my book. She has walked with me on my path of getting my book published, getting back into public speaking, and sharing stories while her book was being shopped. Yesterday morning she passed away. She was a force of nature with one of the biggest hearts. She made me laugh regularly. She will be missed. Please send prayers to all the people grieving her loss, thank you. Rest in Peace, D.C. I know your spirit was too big for humanly form. Now you are free to SOAR!

Daily Aligning with Love, abundance, and Peace #160

I’m grateful for the abundance of love in my life. One thing I’ve repeated over and over again on this blog, on my Facebook page, and in my book is the importance of consciously defining love. Many of us grow up with very mixed messages about love. We unknowingly confuse fear and love. We unknowingly confuse love with someone’s agenda of wanting power and control. When we find the definition of love that resonates in our soul, we stop blindly believing that attachment to the energy of fear, lack, and separation has anything to do with love. Once we see the difference and start treating ourselves with the love and respect that we deserve, we stop accepting less from others. We start giving more to others. We learn to decipher between giving from a loving place and giving out of fear of not being enough.

Being an American, I’ve witnessed the energy of fear, lack, and separation break down communications completely and put many into an us against them mentality (separation). I’ve watched leaders try to make us fear things just to sway people to do what they want. I’ve seen so many people living in a place of lack that they want to take it out on others, not considering the consequences of their actions. The beauty of love is that it doesn’t do these things. This is all fear, lack, and separation. We don’t listen when we are wrapped in that energy. We are replaying a story in our minds that destroys us from the inside and insights darkness in the world.

When we have the awakening of seeing love for what it truly is, some people will fall out of our lives because the energies are no longer aligned. When we give and receive from a place of love, abundance, and peace, our abundance of that love and peace grows and expands. When we have and appreciate the love in our lives, we make space for more.

The abundance of love I feel today fills me with complete awe. I have something to be grateful for every day, because that is where my heart lives. I see places to contribute acts of love, spot acts of love, and receive acts of love. I also spot what is coming from a place of fear, lack, and separation. I do my best to protect myself by tapping into my abundance of love, so that I stay open to learn and grow from each experience I’m presented with. When I tap into my love, it protects me from any darkness.

Today, I commit to appreciating the abundance of love in my life. First, I will look to my definition of love. Then I will write my gratitude list from that place. I will stay open to spot the places I can send love today. I know that many people in the world could use some loving energy today. I will also be open to receive love today. There is an collective heaviness happening right now. Some of you may be tapping into that. The best way to not carry the weight of it is to tap into our love, abundance, and peace instead.

Right now the world can use as much love as we can muster up. I ask anyone who is reading this to please tap into the love in your heart and imagine that energy going out into the Universe and spreading all over our planet. The world needs as many people as we can to be aligned with love, abundance, and peace and not fear, lack, and separation. Fear, lack, and separation only creates more problems. Love, abundance, and peace creates solutions. With love, power and control have no place. People who are driven by making other people feel like victims are coming from a place of fear, lack, and separation. Healthy people don’t do that. Healthy people don’t make another group “evil”. That is fear agenda at it’s finest. People who want us to hate are asking us to align with fear, lack, and separation and they will use those tactics to sway us. Remember, nobody can make us HATE anybody! If we hate someone, that is the energy of fear, lack, and separation living inside of us. If we don’t want that, we have to take action and use our tools to align with the energy of love, abundance, and peace daily!

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021

Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World

Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #159

I’m grateful I understand psychology. In these challenging times, I’m so grateful for my education in psychology both formal and self-taught. I could see myself going quickly and easily down the path of fear, lack, and separation if I didn’t understand just how much I’m in control of and what I’m not. I can see the humanity in individuals hurting and lashing out because I know the issues that untreated and/or unhealed trauma create. I also keep up with current research which is now seeing how trauma is passed down in the DNA. I know from years of research how we are capable of re-wiring our brains to get out of victim mentality that may have been passed down from generations.Gone unexamined, we become vulnerable to be used, manipulated, and set-up to hurt others with our attachments to the energy of fear, lack, and separation. If we live in victim mentality, we can be used in armies built to create more fear, lack, and separation. Understanding psychology helps me to see through agenda, whether it is coming from an institution, company, community, or person I trust or I don’t. Anyone who wants me to align with fear (of the other, of damnation, of the unknown), lack (there is not enough), and separation (us against them) has an agenda I don’t want to align myself with.

One of the reasons it’s so important for me to keep up with this blog is to hold myself accountable for my energy daily. It’s what I know about psychology and training our brains to work with us that has helped me see just how important this is. I’ve also studied psychology in marketing which can be scary how a company can convince a person that they are not enough without a particular product, food, or service. Make no mistake, people who run campaigns to try to get you to take action on something all use psychology. Not all people who know psychology use it for good. That is why it is so important that we understand it, so that we can’t be manipulated by it. Even churches can use psychology to get their members to act a certain way from a place of fear, lack, and separation. When we understand psychology, we don’t have to fear all these tactics because we can spot them, and understand what someone is trying to get from us by believing specific ideas. Parents use psychological fear tactics to get their children to behave certain ways. We are trained to do this. We keep the cycle going the more we put our blinders up to the effects of staying in the energy of fear, lack, and separation.

The more we align ourselves with love, abundance, and peace, the safer we are from someone using psychology against us.The safer we are from hurting someone else. Narcissists and sociopaths depend on their use of psychology to manipulate and/or abuse their victims. I find it much easier to see through all the crap, while also having the understanding of how someone can intentionally hurt others. Many of are a part of the cycle, but we can only get better if we see it.

As humans, we use psychology to get what we want out of a situation. Some of just don’t know it. I love how many resources there are now to learn more. I find this helps me align with love, abundance, and peace especially when I’m dealing with difficult people. It’s also helped me to see how and why people who align with love, abundance, and peace live more fulfilling lives. Never be afraid to reach out for help if you are having trouble understanding your own mind either. I’ve been in and out of therapy since I was 10 years old. If I struggle with figuring stuff out on my own, you better believe I am going to ask a qualified person to help me.

Today, I commit to gain understanding of people through psychology. When I look at others through the eyes of science, I don’t take their actions personally. I also know that I can’t fix anyone else. The only person I’m capable of working on is me. When I change my behaviors towards myself and others, my reality shifts to accommodate for my new perspectives. This is the beauty of understanding the power of the brain and the stories we feed it. We live in an age where we can learn from some of the greatest minds for FREE.

I decided I’m no longer going to invest my mind in places that keep me spinning in the energy of fear, lack, and separation. If I want to know about narcissists and sociopaths, I’m going to invest my time in learning about them instead of watching the news and getting consumed by how many people are falling for it. When I find myself slipping into a funk, I’m going to find the tools I need to get myself out. I’m not going to spin with people who want to go down with me, I’m going to raise myself up with how I can connect psychology, spirituality, and a whole bunch tools from the Universe to move through whatever I’m going through. I know that I don’t want to hurt anyone with my unhealed stuff, and I don’t want to be victim of someone else’s unhealed stuff. The ONLY way I know how to do this to the best of my ability is to invest my time in the right places.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021

Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World

Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #158

I’m grateful for my love of humanity. My love for humanity helps me to see clearly. When I focus on humanity first, I see humanity instead of categories. It helps me not to categorize any group in an ALL good or All bad manner. It helps me to see the human who is struggling with their own humanity. My love makes it easy for me to have compassion for myself and others. This is not to say that I don’t have my triggers, I do. I’m very aware of my triggers and the specific behaviors that can still make my blood boil. The beautiful thing is that my love for humanity has taught me how to release and let go, so that I don’t carry the weight of another human’s choices. My love for humanity means having love for myself too. Loving myself means that I am able to not take what other’s do personally. Only if I feel insecure about my value do I take someone else’s attachments to fear, lack, and separation personally. This doesn’t mean that I don’t have healthy boundaries either. This means that because I love myself, I will not accept behavior that is disrespectful. This looks different under different circumstances. Loving humanity first in NO WAY means that I will accept abuse from someone consumed by the energy of fear, lack, and separation. It means that I will my work to align daily with love, abundance, and peace so that I don’t give someone a negative energy force to feed on. This also allows me to keep my energy intact.

Today, I commit to embracing my love for humanity. Right now news and scrolling social media aren’t helping me see humanity first. This means I have to change my behavior. I will go on the internet with the intention of learning about my fellow human. How do I see someone else’s humanity first? How do I see my humanity first?

I will look up things like Ted Talks, acts of kindness, paying it forward, and good samaritans. I will be in search of people’s stories of forgiveness, overcoming challenges, and compassion. Remember, wherever we put our focus, we will see more of. It doesn’t mean there is more of it, it just means there is more WHERE our energy is aligned. If I want to see more love, abundance, and peace in the world, I have to search out the humans who are creating it and NOT JUDGE the people who are showing up, because that is me stuck in fear, lack, and separation.

I told you above how some human behaviors can still make my blood boil, but I have tools I use to help get me out of that space.

  1. I have to take responsibility and be accountable for my energy. My blood is boiling. The other person can’t MAKE my blood boil. They are not responsible for my energy, I am.
  2. I allow myself to feel what I’m feeling. Sometimes I will write it out and let it get as ugly as it is in my head. This helps me to release it from holding inside and turning it into shame, self-blame, or guilt. Once I’ve done this for a short time, I will shake it off in some way physically. I might go in for some fast cardio with high pumping music; do a dance shake; or just shake every part of my body for 8 minutes (I just learned this technique Dr. Jodie Skillicorn).
  3. Once, I’ve taken responsibility, I’m accountable for shifting my own energy. I start with deep breaths in and out. The out breath is very important because when we are stressed and/or angry we hold our breath, this restricts oxygen flow. That means our brains don’t have the ability to function at their highest capacity.
  4. I search out perspectives that make me feel better. I remind myself by me taking on hate, rage, and/or revenge thinking isn’t HELPING. I actually became as dark as the person doing the hateful things when I allow myself to fester in that energy. I can’t find solutions to hate if I’m stuck in hate myself. I’m just a part of the vicious cycle. That tends to take me down a level. Then I go deeper
  5. Look for my compassion and forgiveness. I know that me carry the weight of hate is hurting me, so I next try to do things to help me release myself from that person’s actions, words, and beliefs that have them lost in fear, lack, and separation. Sometimes I have to research narcissists, sociopaths, addictions, family history, and other disorders/conditions that contribute to someone being stuck fear, lack, and separation.
  6. If my energy is not yet back to peace, I will do things like write a forgiveness letter and burn it snd/or I will meditate, dance (and listen to music) or take a nature walk. It all depends on where my energy level is. The only person’s energy I can fix is my own, so that is where I put my focus.
  7. I ask myself, “What can I do to help humanity right now from a loving place?” Sometimes, the answer is just cleaning up my own energy so that I’m not contributing more to the fear, lack, and separation in the world. Other times, it’s writing a blog. Sometimes it’s working on a book or book ideas. Other times it may be working with individuals one-on-one. Sometimes it’s bringing love, abundance, and peace to social media. I go where I’m guided.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021

Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World

Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #157

I’m grateful for being an empath. Some people feel like being an empath is a weight. Before I knew how to decipher what was mine from someone else’s, I struggled immensely. Taking on other’s feelings as my own is what used to happen, which could lead me into deep depressions that I struggled to get out of. What I do now is allow the feelings to guide me to research. Digging helps me find ways to communicate and be of service with the gifts I’ve been given. I used to buy into people telling me that I’m a target for narcissists. I was a target, but not because I am an empath. I was a target because I didn’t know how to decipher my feelings from theirs. When they went down, I went down with them. I played into their victim mentality. I became a part of their sick game. I had NO IDEA until I started working on my own self-worth and became more clear on what was my energy and what was someone else’s. Once I learned to see the difference, I really did see the many gifts that come with being an empath.

Today, I commit to becoming clear on what is mine and what is not. My favorite tool to do this is to write it out. If my energy is feeling off and I don’t know why, I do at least 15 minutes of free-writing. I write without any editing for a period of time. I start with a question like, “Is what I’m feeling my stuff?” Then I just write whatever comes out. What comes out reveals what is going on. That’s one of the fastest ways I’m able to determine what is mine and what is not. After I’m done writing, I will tend to have a few different topics to research. Sometimes the research helps me decide what to write here. It’s those times when I love when someone reaches out telling me that I was saying exactly what they needed to hear, because that is the person’s feelings I was tapping into. Some of the messages are on a more global level, which often feel heavier in my body. Those are the posts that are viewed and share more. I trust that if I’ve felt a person’s feelings on a topic, then have come up with the tools to help a person through those particular feelings, I’ve used my gift in a way that makes the world better. I know that when other people’s fear, lack, and separation would take me down, I wasn’t helping anyone from there. I was in the energy with them.

I love knowing what is mine, including my insecurities, fears, sadness, and/or anxiety. When I’m clear, I can take responsibility for what is mine and find a solution to move me out of where I am. When it’s not mine, I can do something to serve my fellow human with the insights that came to me from the experience. To me that is a win-win.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021

Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World

Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #156

I’m grateful for the inner knowing that my soul is safe. For a very long time, I didn’t feel this way. Years ago, I had so many layers of shame stories that made me feel unlovable and unworthy. I had so much self hatred. I did things that hurt myself and others. I didn’t even know how much I abused myself until I attracted that level of abuse back to me. I didn’t feel safe in this life, let alone considering dying with all the hate I had in my heart. I was so driven by fear, lack, and separation that I spun so much fear that I was afraid of facing my maker when I died. I actually believed I wasn’t worthy of even God’s love. As I’ve said before, my definition of what God’s love represents is the purest love there is, when I didn’t feel that love inside me, I couldn’t feel that love from ANY outside source.

When I started to authentically love myself, the inner knowing that my soul is safe became stronger and stronger. The better I was to myself, the more I could serve others in a wholehearted way. I am accountable and responsible for my mistakes without condemning myself, and it DOES NOT MATTER what ANYONE else believes about my soul. What energy another person puts into me, is none of my business. They are accountable and responsible for their own energy. If I take on someone else’s energy or seek revenge, I am responsible for that energy. Nobody can MAKE me take revenge. When I used to engage in the energy of revenge, my soul didn’t feel safe, because that energy is aligned with the darkness in humanity. If I feel hate brewing inside of me, I know that is my energy to resolve and that has NOTHING to to with the person, place, or thing that I’m hating. When I release my soul from that energy, I feel free and safe.

Today, I commit to resting in the energy of love, abundance, and peace—My soul is safe. My fear of death disappeared when I started allowing my energy to rest in this beautiful place. I love to practice with saying prayers for people who are hurting others. I say prayers for people who are trapped in the energy of fear, lack, and separation. I picture people who do hurtful things that are aimed at me looking at themselves instead. I realize that it takes a lot of self-hate to intentionally hurt someone else. When I stopped self-abusing, I stopped putting myself in the path of people who were looking for someone to take their pain out on. I couldn’t do that though until my energy was aligned with love, abundance, and peace.

If you are reading this and you feel like you are not surrounded by healthy people, start doing this daily work of aligning your energy. You will find that the more aligned you are, the people who surround you will change. There will either be new people or the old relationships will change. I have healed many of my relationships by working on aligning my own energy. The more aligned my energy is with love, abundance, and peace, the safer my soul feels. If you read my book, you will see how I shifted my life to what it is now and get all the tools to do it.

Today, I will use meditation to help me rest in the energy of love, abundance, and peace. I’ve spent a lot of time cleaning up my side of the street (i.e. my business, my problems, my stories). At this point, I simply close my eyes, take a deep cleansing breath in, and release in the knowing that my soul is safe because I’m doing my best to align with love, abundance, and peace daily. Just that simple thought brings tears of joy and peace to my eyes. The only SOUL I’m responsible and accountable for is my own. It’s not my job to judge someone else’s journey. They are here with a purpose to serve just like I am. The second I put my energy in their business and align it with fear, lack, and separation, I am responsible and accountable for that energy. I discovered it’s just not worth it. I simply do what I need to do to take care of my energy, that way I can show up for the people I love in the best way possible and…my soul is safe.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021

Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World

Daily Aligning with Love, abundance, and Peace #155

I’m grateful for nights by the fire. There is something about a fire that brings me to peace. I love sitting and watching the flames dance in front of me. I sit in AWE, which I define as the most authentic joy. I also love the natural warmth against the cool air. Just thinking about it makes me release a huge exhale. I love that!

Today, I commit to releasing what I no longer want to carry to the flames. I’m releasing all the feelings of fear, lack, and separation from 2020 by writing them down, then throwing them in the fire. I will say a prayer for God to take them away bless them with love, so they no longer carry weight that contaminates humanity. I know I will have to do this more than once. That’s okay, I learn every time I let my energy to be swayed. I keep getting stronger and wiser, and I’m grateful for that. I love being able to do a physical release of the things that no longer serve me. Every time I do it, I feel free and light. I experience true peace.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021

Author of Letters from a Better Me

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Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #154

I’m grateful for a blank page to write a new chapter. I’ve been blessed to start the day living in 2021. I’m starting the day with a blank page to write my story the way I CHOOSE! I’m in control of how my inner world projects out. I make the the choice to align with love, abundance, and peace OR fear, lack, and separation. I love my blank page, because it offers me so many different opportunities to try new things and build on the things that are already working on my life. If you haven’t noticed in the past few days, I’ve been taking some important inventory. The work I’ve been doing aligns my hand with the energy I want to feed into the stories I’m writing about my life. When I say that, I don’t mean physically writing, I mean by the thoughts that swirl in my head over any number of events that occur during the day. What does my self-talk look like? I choose those things and I can write my story however I choose. I’m so grateful for my journey that helped me to see how empowered I am.

Today, I commit to enjoying writing a new page of my story. As a new start to the new year, I’m going to sit down and write my new story today. I will follow the advice of Dr. Joe Dispenza in Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself and ask myself, “What is the greater expression of myself that I would like to be?” This is how I will start my new year. Clear and focused on how I want to write myself in 2021. I know the clearer the vision I have for myself, the more the doors will open to get me there. Welcome 2021! Let this be a year where I align and serve with love, abundance, and peace. Wishing you all a HAPPY NEW YEAR!

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With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021

Author of Letters from a Better Me