Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #357

I’m grateful for my divergent ways of processing my experiences. When I was growing up, I thought that I was stupid because of the way I processed information. I could see possibilities everywhere. There was very rarely just one right answer. This made standardized testing very challenging for me. I’m so grateful that what was once treated like a deficiency is now one of my greatest assets. When it comes to questioning my own thoughts, it’s given me ample possibilities to choose from. I can look at which options cause me pain and which ones don’t. As a multiple trauma victim, I’ve been given plenty of excuses, justifications, rationalizations, and medical diagnoses that could have kept me a victim for a lifetime. My divergent way of processing took me down a different path, which has led me to re-wiring my brain in so many amazing ways. The most awesome part is that new brain research, modalities, and techniques for trauma therapy support the ancient wisdom.

What I’ve discovered is that I can talk myself into or out of anything convincingly. I can be my own best friend or my own worst enemy based on what thoughts I’m letting circulate over and over and the emotions that go along with them. The blessing of processing experiences divergently is that I don’t get tied to any one way of looking at a circumstance. I’ve found this to be a tremendous gift. The part that can sometimes get a little tricky is making decisions. I pray a lot in the decision making processes. Some answers will come with giant BLINKING signs that guide me down a specific path. Others, I trust that the right solution will come when I need it. If I don’t need the answer, it won’t present itself. That’s usually my sign to take my time and have faith that more information is coming to help me make a decision.

Now, if a situation calls for a convergent decision maker, I trust that one will show up to assist, and they do or I will get one of those clear BLINKING signs that light up inside me. I used to beat myself up over the way I processed my experiences. I would even beat myself up if I was processing something in a way that would be less painful for me because of what other people who were victimized felt about it. It was like I literally found away to be in pain no matter what! I’m so grateful that I realized that I don’t have to do that. I’m not here to tell people that my way is the only way that is right, it’s not. I read about so many amazing ways people process their experiences. It’s not about what is overall right or wrong. We each get to make choices on how we want to think, believe, be, react, respond, and live. I believe we are each here to play a unique role. I guess that is why I have so much faith that only the people who are meant to read or hear what I write and/or say will. If my messages don’t align in some way with a person’s journey, there will always be a reason for them not to get the seeds I offer.

When I get a seed from someone else, it goes into my divergent thinking processing kit as a possibility. It doesn’t mean I will plant the seed, but it means I can consider it as a possibility to remind me that I have choices. That is a GIANT gift. Anytime, I have another option of thinking to consider, I realize that I don’t have to be trapped in any one way of thinking.

Today, I commit to embracing my divergent ways of processing my experiences. I feel completely blessed that I don’t ever have to be stuck in a way of processing things that causes me longterm inner chaos. I can choose peaceful processing options or fear-based processing options with every story I tell myself. What I realized is that I can complicate thing as much or as little as I choose based on how much I play any repeating thought in my head. I’m the one who hits play, stop, rewind, fast forward, or pause. I have replayed some of the most painful messages in my head for decades. Then ONE day, I commit to playing a different message—ONE DAY! This is where the power of letter writing really started to take hold of the way I HELPED myself get out of any thinking that wasn’t serving me.

Now, here’s the catch—I had to first be willing to see how I was processing things currently and why that way was causing me more harm than good. So, when I first was getting started in this process, I would write a letter and let it ALL come out and it would get REALLY UGLY sometimes, but I needed to see what my darkest corners were experiencing in order to find a healthier way. I remember thinking things like, “You would be doing everyone a favor if you just weren’t here anymore.” I didn’t mean in a place, I meant in this life. I also would kill addicts I cared about a million times in my head by watching them die in some accident and then I would imagine what it would be like to pick up the pieces after. The people are all still living today, but I created complete chaos by future fear-based thinking that kept killing them in my mind over and over, talk about painful!

Putting my expectations on others has always been one of those areas I need to check myself. I don’t do this by denying how I feel. I completely acknowledge how I feel, because when I don’t, it has a way of coming out sideways and creating more pain for myself and others. I just had to watch myself do this the other day, but now because I’ve been practicing this for so long, I could look at my thinking as if I was an outside observing. I said, I’m feeling hurt, confused, unimportant, and dismissed. Then I took a deep breath, and decided to start looking at different ways I could think about the situation. Just considering other ways to process the experience helped lesson the pain I was feeling. I noticed one by one the feelings started going away and I started feeling more and more peace, love, and compassion. I started putting my energy back into abundance by looking at:

  • What do I have in this moment?
  • What makes me feel safe in this moment?
  • What offers me peace in this moment?
  • Where can I find compassion in this moment?
  • How do I show love in this moment?
  • How do I receive love in this moment? SHOW IT to myself!
  • How do I show myself love right here and now?

Just opening myself up to processing my thoughts and emotions helps me to appreciate my divergent ways.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021, Author of Letters from a Better Me

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Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #356

I’m grateful for the process. I used to dread the future, but now I love watching how it all unfolds. I’ve learned to follow my inner callings and trust that there is a reason I am where I am at every moment, even when I find myself binge watching a show. There is something I get from watching the relationships playing out in front of me. If I wasn’t meant to watch what I did, I wouldn’t have seen it. Just like if I am meant to read a book, I will. If I’m not meant to read it, I won’t. If something or someone is meant to be a part of my path, I will experience whatever life presents to me—even if at the time I don’t understand why. Living in the process is about being engaged in the journey instead of focused on the destination.

There are so many amazing discoveries and insights that are revealed. What I’ve realized is that we are not powerless on this road. We are making choices all along the way that create the opportunities that are ahead and it all depends on where our energy is aligned to how these opportunities will reveal themselves.

I used to believe the lessons had to cause me great pain in order for me to absorb them, but then I discovered that wasn’t true. It depended on if my energy was aligned with love, abundance, and peace or fear, lack, and separation. When I began paying close attention to the process, I saw how amazing it is to choose differently in a moment and watch how things changed. When I’m aligned with the energy of love, abundance, the process reflects the energy.

Seeing all this didn’t happen overnight and it doesn’t mean that I don’t lose myself from time to time in the energy of fear, lack, and separation. It just happens less and for shorter periods of time when it does. The one thing that used to trip me up is the labels. When I gave myself a label or someone else gave me a label, I would often try to live up to what my or what I thought society defined the label as. When that happened, my process became about how to make others happy out of fear, lack, and separation. I started becoming aware of the process, the the tools to make things better started presenting themselves to me along the way. I’m grateful for seeing both my healthy and unhealthy processes, because only when I understand how the process works, do I know what to do to make them better.

Today, I commit to engaging in the process. All it takes to engage in the process is to consciously watch where I am and what I am doing throughout the day. Awareness is my survival tool. If I watch my process and I don’t like the results I’m getting, I can make different choices and observe the difference in the way I feel, think, and act. I can also observe the differences of how people reflect back to me what I put out. If I want to change what is reflected back to me, I have to change what I’m thinking and doing, my feelings change with whatever energy I’m aligning to either love, abundance, and peace or fear, lack, and separation.

When I find joy in the process, I become a beacon of joy. I lead joy to me. When I find misery in the process, I become a beacon of misery. I lead misery to me. Hmmmm…which will I choose? When I engage and stay aware, I give myself the access to choose differently in a moment. If I’m not engaged, I can easily put energy where I don’t want it to go. I really try to avoid doing that.Throughout the day, I’m going to be the observer of the process step by step, choice by choice.

  • Where are my thoughts, beliefs, and actions taking me in this moment?
  • What am I creating in this moment?
  • How is my energy aligning with what I want reflected back to me?
  • Who is in my life and what are they mirroring back to me right now?
  • Is there anything I want to do differently in the next moment?

Sometimes what we need to see in the process is scary, ugly, informative, beautiful, magical, etc. Just because we experience something that is challenging doesn’t mean that experience isn’t for our highest good. I’ve experienced and seen some very scary things in my life, but what is amazing now is that I’m seeing how they were all a part of the creative process of my journey. I look back in AWE of how some of these pieces are coming together now. I’m finding more and more gifts each step of the way.

If you are reading this post, it’s a part of your process. If you think a friend of yours should read this post and they don’t, it’s because it’s not a part of their process. The experiences we are meant to have on our journeys will happen. That’s part of the reason I don’t feel tied to who reads what I write and who doesn’t. I know whoever is meant to read it will, and whoever isn’t won’t. It’s just that simple. I don’t know what others will have to go through to get to a place where they feel aligned with love, abundance, and peace. Some will CHOOSE to stay in the energy of fear, lack, and separation, but that is their choice, their process to be accountable and responsible for.

The only person’s process I’m accountable and responsible for is my own. It’s my job to create the life that is best for me. My focus is on serving the highest good and my process reveals to me how I can do that step by step.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021, Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World available in audiobook, ebook, and paperback (click title to learn more)

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Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #355

I’m grateful for the opportunity to expand my capacity to love. Moment to moment, I can choose to be in this space. I’m overwhelmed when I think about the fact there is always more room to love, especially after I became conscious of what love was and wasn’t. When I’m fully aligned with the energy of love, abundance, and peace, my capacity to love and be loved has NO limits. The more I recognize the love within myself, the more I open up to love and to be loved by others. My heart feels full just typing these words.

Living from a loving place is a journey I’ve been on since 2016. It’s not always pretty, but it’s all about being the love in the world that I want to see more of. Living from love or fear is a choice I make with every breath—unconscious or conscious.

Today, I commit to taking action to expand my capacity to love. When I love myself wholeheartedly, I have a brighter light to shine out to the world. Being self-critical and not facing the unhealed past can limit my ability to give and receive authentic love. The unhealed parts can taint love with fear. I have to do the work in order to expand my capacity to love, and a part of that is showing myself the love and respect that I deserve.

I make actions choices to show myself love while also making choices to give and receive love to and from others. The beauty of taking action to show myself love means that I don’t put expectations on others to do what I’m not willing to do for myself. Loving myself in action creates natural boundaries, almost like a light force field around me. Having this helps me take those steps to give and receive authentic love in action. It also helps me to stay out of the old stories that creep up, which are aligned with the energy of fear, lack, and separation.

Taking action to expand my capacity to love is not about an expectation to receive something back for what I do. If my actions are fully aligned with love, I will attract love back to me, but that doesn’t mean it will come from where I think it will. I will know if I’m aligned with the energy of love, abundance, and peace by the stories that are playing in my head about myself and others.

When I’m at the height of feeling the energy of love, abundance, and peace inside me (what I recognize as the state of AWE), I send loving energy out to people I love, trees, animals, etc. It’s my way of giving unconditional love to the world. I see it as putting out the energy I want to see more of in the world.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021, Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World available in audiobook, ebook, and paperback (click title to learn more)

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Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #354

I’m grateful for the opportunity to develop new ideas. I get so many ideas on a daily basis. I love sitting in my stillness and letting ideas percolate to see which ones I want to invest my energy in. I write them down and watch the ideas take form. Then, I take action to bring those ideas to life. Developing ideas is a magical process, because when things feel right, everything flows.

I remember the moment my book came into my head. I was walking a labyrinth in Sedona, Arizona. I had struggled with the thought of writing a book about women’s empowerment because what was selling wasn’t in the same energy as what I write. I can only write in my authentic voice, which calls on aligning with the energy of love, abundance, and peace to get out of our own ways and solve problems. As I walked the labyrinth, I watched the ideas start to come together in my mind. Then, like a burst I saw it. I still remember my excitement as I shared my ideas with my agent and she encouraged me to go for it.

I think about how I’ve watched my ideas of butterflies representing transformation, internal gardens representing the mind, and puzzle pieces representing the journey of life growing from material for speaking engagements to enough to fill books. If you’ve been following my blog, you’ve read multiple pieces using symbolism as a back drop to help navigate all life’s twists and turns.

Even writing this blog series, I sit in front of my excel spreadsheet and am amazed at how what started as a lists of topics turned into a series of puzzle pieces that all fit together in a way that makes the whole puzzle make sense, at least to me.

Today, I commit to writing down my developing ideas. Writing down my ideas is like planting the seed. I have to first put them down in the right environment in order for them to grow. Writing down my ideas puts me consciously in the energy of creation, and that’s where I love to be.

I love what happens to my energy as I’m writing down my developing ideas. There’s a beautiful excitement that comes with the process of seeing the possibilities of turning these ideas into reality. I feel AWE just thinking about it. It’s time to get started! I feel some percolating as I type these words.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021, Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World available in audiobook, ebook, and paperback (click title to learn more)

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Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #353

I’m grateful for the opportunity to make a different choice. These words feel so freeing to write. I CAN MAKE A DIFFERENT CHOICE. I tell myself this when my mind starts to spin with thoughts aligned with fear, lack, and separation. I love that I don’t have to beat myself up over the choices I’ve made in my past, I can just choose differently now. The option to make a different choice is ALWAYS right there. I can change my mind, set new boundaries, or take a different road. Life became a whole new adventure when I got out of my own way and made a different choice.

Today, I commit to considering my choices. I used to complicate this process by making myself prisoner of my choices. I held myself hostage by my past decisions and what I feared in the upcoming future. I’m in the process of detaching from outcome and just making the step that I believe is best in the moment. By slowing down to consider my choices, I can see if I’m aligning with energy of love, abundance, and peace or fear, lack, and separation. If I choose to take a few steps aligned with fear, I can choose at any point to take the next step towards love. I don’t have to stay moving in any direction that I don’t want to be heading. I can change direction in this moment. Here’s my simple and fun method I’m using today:

  1. What action steps could I take in this moment to serve my highest good right now?
  2. Which step feels most aligned with the energy of love, abundance, and peace?
  3. DO IT!
  4. Repeat steps 1-3

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021, Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World available in audiobook, ebook, and paperback (click title to learn more)

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Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #352

I’m grateful for the opportunity to travel. I love traveling. It’s not always about traveling far, I just love exploring new and different places. I’ve grown up doing summer traveling since I can remember. Up until 2020, I took my kids on family road trips to see family and friends along with having all kinds of different experiences. Somehow, even if I don’t have any clue how a trip will financially come together, a way presents itself. I love how that happens.

This year, I’m exploring a new area. Once I get back home to my computer, I will be posting more pictures from the trip. I love appreciating what every place I go has to offer. I get so excited by the wildlife and natural views. One of the things I love about traveling is it helps me get out of the busy doing in my every day environment. Traveling helps me focus more on the experiences instead of the daily chores. There is something about traveling that helps me tap into my soul’s calling.

I’ve learned to trust the travels that present themselves and the ones that don’t work out. I know I’m always exactly where I’m supposed to be. Though I do have to admit, I don’t think I ever imagined myself being where I am at this moment. I love how the Universe works!

Today, I commit to enjoying my travels. Whether I walk amongst the deer, along the beach, or go for a drive to enjoy the scenic views, I commit to taking it all in. Life manifests beauty all around me, it’s my job to pay attention to it.

When I enjoy my far away travels, I find that I want to do more in my own backyard when I go home. I will catch more sunsets at the beach, walk the neighborhood more often, look at the trees that line the streets, and visit places with beautiful natural scenery. I feel so blessed that I get the opportunity to travel even if it’s taking just a few steps into my backyard and enjoying the ducks, birds, squirrels, bunnies, water, flowers, and trees. Each step I’m blessed to take is a gift. I’m going to make sure I appreciate it.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021, Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World available in audiobook, ebook, and paperback (click title to learn more)

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Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #351

I’m grateful for the opportunity to explore possibilities. Now, how I choose to explore possibilities matters. I can choose to explore them aligned with the energy of love, abundance, and peace or fear, lack, and separation. Being mindful and conscious in the moment helps to ensure I’m making the most out of all the possibilities showing up for me to explore. I’ve seen what happens when people endlessly explore thoughts and ideas that come from the energy of fear, lack, and separation, I used to be one of them. I could awfulize ANYTHING! I didn’t recognize what love looked like, so when someone showed me love I would come up with tons of fear-filled theories on why they were acting the way they were. I made myself a victim of people showing me love. I’ve also mentioned before on this blog how I turned a guy throwing out dog poop a murderer. Everyone is capable of exploring possibilities aligned with the energy of fear, lack, and separation or love, abundance, and peace. I love that I can see the difference now, because I have the power to shift my energy and explore possibilities aligned with the energy I want to see more of in the world.

Here’s the thing, when I explore possibilities in the energy of fear, lack, and separation, that is where my energy is focused, so I attract more opportunities to see fear, lack, and separation even if it’s only happening inside me. When I explore possibilities in the energy of love, abundance, and peace, that is where my energy is focused, so I attract more opportunities to see love, abundance, and peace even if it’s only happening inside me. Where do I want to live my life? That’s the question I ask myself, because I’m only accountable and responsible for the energy I project to the world.

I love exploring possibilities aligned with the energy of love, abundance, and peace. I’ve discovered so many amazing things by aligning with this energy. First and foremost, where I let my thoughts go affects ALL my relationships, including my relationship with myself. It takes work to reprogram the endless thoughts, ideas, and beliefs that I have identified with for so long. Letting some of them go is scary, but I’ve discovered aligning with the energy of love, abundance, and peace doesn’t make me naive or more vulnerable, I’ve actually got more in-tuned to see when a moment, a person, or an energy is not healthy and/or safe to be around. I’ve got to meet people who have given me tools to keep me safe. One of my favorite prayers I got from my friend, Sandra—”Bless it, or block it.” This one helps me trust where I’m led, and I physically get signs when something isn’t leading me to my highest good. Saying this prayer helps give me the confidence to explore possibilities with love in my heart. It’s because of this prayer I’m able to be in gratitude when things don’t go as planned.

Today, I commit to being open to possibilities. I will align my energy with love, abundance, and peace and see where that takes me today. I love making this a game to see where aligning with love, abundance, and peace will guide me in my thoughts when I’m looking at my daily world. There are endless possibilities! I feel so much better in my interactions with my kids, mate, friends, and family. It was being in this energy that I found that I could find peace in doing laundry, washing dishes, and oh my goodness washing my hands. I’m brought so much joy just walking down the street because I never know what will cross my path.

I’m working on writing a pitch for a series of books. To me, the pitch is all about seeing the possibilities. I love the process especially when I align my energy! Seeing the possibilities is what got me published in the first place. Seeing the possibilities also paved the way for all the amazing adventures I’ve been on. Years ago, I took my kids on a 6-week road trip which all happened because I explored the possibilities of what it would look like to do it. When I explore possibilities aligned with the energy of love, abundance, and peace, magic happens.

Right now, I’m in a place I’ve never been before. There are endless opportunities for me explore the possibilities. Today, I’m going to make sure I leave myself open to explore as many as I can. I’m also going to write down the ones that really call to me, because that’s how I help turn them into reality.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021, Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World available in audiobook, ebook, and paperback (click title to learn more)

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Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #350

I’m grateful for the opportunity to write daily. Writing is something that I’ve been attracted to from the time I started. I feel like something is missing when I’m not writing, which is why I’m so grateful I don’t ever have to go without. Even if I write is a few sentences, I’m writing and I’m grateful. I’m amazed about how much inner wisdom is capable of flowing from the fingers to the page. It doesn’t matter what comes out really as long as I give the words the space to become what they are meant to be.

Writing daily helps me to focus on being in the energy of love, abundance, and peace. The more I write about this subject, the easier it is for me to catch myself when I’m stuck in the energy of fear, lack, and separation. Writing is what helped me get out of countless ruts. As soon as I feel myself going down and struggling to stop the vicious cycle of thoughts that keep me prisoner in the energy of fear, lack, and separation, I start writing my way out.

Writing this series for the last 349 days has shown me that inspiration is here for the taking. I’ve been reading more, listening more, and interested in learning so much more. I never know what gifts will come from choosing to follow my hearts callings, but I’m ALWAYS amazed at where taking simple steps, like writing daily takes me.

Today, I commit to writing. It doesn’t matter what comes out of me today, as long as it comes out. I’m going to let the words flow from my finger tips as I marinade in the energy of love, abundance, and peace. I want to see what comes out. Today, I’m doing some planning for my next book/series ideas, I’m excited to see what comes out. I love the process of letting my soul speak through my fingertips.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021, Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World available in audiobook, ebook, and paperback (click title for a list of online book retailers)

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Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #349

I’m grateful for waking up to my overall wellness. The last nine days of my daily aligning with love, abundance, and peace journey have given me the opportunity to dive deeper into nine different areas of wellness. When I used to think of wellness, I lumped it all together, which made it very challenging to spot when I wasn’t supporting myself in specific areas. It’s just like saying emotionally triggered instead of looking at the specific feelings an event, person, or circumstance have given me the opportunity to look at. The more aware I become, the more opportunities I get to make my life better. I don’t do this by staying in the dark. I like to shine light in those dark corners of my subconscious mind.

I’m grateful for the waking up process, now it’s up to me to stay awake. If you missed any of the last nine days, here is a quick reference:

  1. #340 Waking Up Physically
  2. #341 Waking Up Emotionally
  3. #342 Waking Up Socially
  4. #343 Waking Up Creatively
  5. #344 Waking Up Spiritually
  6. #345 Waking Up Intellectually
  7. #346 Waking Up Environmentally
  8. #347 Waking Up Occupationally
  9. #348 Waking Up Financially

You can go to the FromALovingPlace.com home page to scroll through.

Today, I commit to igniting my overall well-being. Let’s light it up! Simply being aware of how I’m processing things helps my overall well-being. I’m tired of creating obstacles without knowing that I’m the one creating them. When I pay attention to my wellness, I serve others from a wholehearted place. When I’m living from the energy of love, abundance, and peace, no one else is the recipient of my unhealed past. Thoughts may sneak in, but the more conscious I am, the faster I can change them to align with my overall wellness, which then serves the highest good.

I’ve decided to do a daily check-in with myself in each of the nine areas. I’m just going to list the nine categories on a small dry-erase board I have by my bedroom door. All I’m doing here is staying aware of how my thoughts, beliefs, ideas, and actions around these areas affects my daily living. It will help me to question if I’m doing things to contribute to my health and wellness daily.

Today’s mantra: I’m accountable and responsible for my overall well-being.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021, Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World available in audiobook, ebook, and paperback (click title to learn more)

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Daily Aligning with Love, Abundance, and Peace #348

I’m grateful for waking up financially. These last 347 days have shown me a lot about where I am and where I’m not. I’ve been getting clear on where and when I focus on the energy of love, abundance, and peace and/or the energy of fear, lack, and separation. The awareness is the waking up process. When I started writing this series, I didn’t have any clue how much I still focused on lack when it came to financial wellness. I thought because I KNEW money wasn’t evil and I KNEW that what I need always shows up, I was living in abundance. What I discovered is there were so many other little hidden messages that kept me in fear, lack, and separation from obtaining a healthy relationship with money.

My lack of financial wellness was keeping me prisoner, but it was buried under the surface. I KNOW I’m where I’m supposed to be, but then all the sudden I will go down the rabbit hole of desperately attempting to chase financial abundance. I focus on what I can’t provide for my kids or what I can’t pay back or pay forward at this moment. I sometimes get stuck in this energy to the point where I make a series of choices that are acting against myself, which just keeps me stuck in the energy of lack.

Financial wellness isn’t about a number. It isn’t about having a particular amount of money to “make” me happy or feel worthy as a member of society. Financial wellness is about making sure I have a healthy relationship with money, so that when it comes in I don’t sabotage it with unhealthy thoughts, beliefs, and actions, and when it goes out, I’m not sabotaging it by my energy of fear, lack, and separation. My job is to be grateful for what comes in and what goes out. If I have it to give, I was provided for in order to have that money.

I’ve also figured out that there is a lot of wisdom to absorb from not having money at a particular time. There are so many incredible gifts from the journey, but I can’t see them when I’m aligning with the energy of fear, lack, and separation. All I do is justify my thoughts, beliefs, and actions to keep me prisoner of the cycle. If I’m projecting out lack, I will attract more to feel in lack of…because that is where my mindset takes me.

I remember when I lived in a toxic energy around my romantic relationships, I kept myself prisoner for along time in unhealthy patterns of thoughts, beliefs, and actions. I had to do the work to be able to wake up and STAY AWAKE so that I wouldn’t repeat the patterns. Having done the work, I know the amazing results. I’m waking up financially. Now, I have to do the work to stay awake.

Today, I commit to igniting my financial awareness to be in the energy of abundance. I’m getting to work! I’ve discovered so much on my journey. Now, it’s time to unpack and organize in order to make space for the new wisdom to reflect back to me. How do I project financial wellness? That’s the question I’m asking myself today. If I don’t know how to project financial wellness, I’m not capable of attracting financial abundance. I can only attract what I’m projecting, my reality is my mirror. Like I’ve been saying the past few days, I can’t fake where I am. The Universe knows, and as Sam Beasley and B.J. Gallagher say in the title of their book, Your Life is Your Prayer. Every thought, idea, and belief I carry around with me is a prayer to the Universe. It’s my job to make sure my prayers are aligned with the energy of love, abundance, and peace over fear, lack, and separation.

I’m digging down today to see if I’m still harboring any attachments to the energy of fear, lack, and separation that are affecting my financial well-being. Here’s my plan:

  1. Look at the money that comes in and see where my energy goes. How do I treat the money coming in to support my wants and survival?
  2. Look at the money that goes out and see where my energy goes. How do I treat the money going out to support my wants and survival?
  3. Look at how I think about people who have a lot of money. What thoughts, observations, ideas, and/or judgments are coming up? Are they aligned with the energy of love, abundance, and peace or fear, lack, and separation?
  4. Look at how I think about people who have very little money. What thoughts, observations, ideas, and/or judgments are coming up? Are they aligned with the energy of love, abundance, and peace or fear, lack, and separation?
  5. Write down all the thoughts, ideas, and beliefs about money that are serving my life in healthy ways.
  6. Write down all the thoughts, ideas, and beliefs about money that are keeping me a prisoner to fear, lacks and separation.
  7. Write down new statements that would serve me in a way that aligns my energy with love, abundance, and peace.
  8. Repeat the new thoughts out loud to see what feels right.
  9. Take an action step in this moment aligned with a new healthier belief that supports my financial wellness.

Today’s mantra: I’m accountable and responsible for the energy I’m giving the money flowing in and out of my life.

With Love, Abundance, and Peace,

©Rachael Wolff 2021, Author of Letters from a Better Me: How Becoming an Empowered Woman Transforms the World available in audiobook, ebook, and paperback (click title to learn more)

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