Category: self help
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 16 – Perpetuating the Blame Cycle

Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 16: Perpetuating the Blame Cycle “When you blame others, you give up your power to change.” -Robert Anthony It’s interesting to watch how we get caught in acts of blaming and shaming because of our expectations of others, sometimes without knowing…
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90-Day A Better Me Letters Series: Day 15 – How Media Affects My Perspective

Letters From A Better Me 90-Day A Better Me Letters Series Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 15: How Media Affects My Perspective Dear Self, I’m actively watching how media affects my perspective. WOW!!!! I never realized how much of my perspective comes from what they are…
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 15 – Buying and Selling Blame in the Media

Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 15: Buying and Selling Blame in the Media “People spend too much time finding other people to blame, too much energy finding excuses for not being what they are capable of being, and not enough energy putting themselves on the…
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90-Day A Better Me Letters Series: Day 14 – Recognizing Self-Blame

Letters From A Better Me 90-Day A Better Me Letters Series Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 14: Recognizing Self-Blame Dear Self, I didn’t realize how hard I was being on you when I chose to self-blame. I didn’t see how I had higher expectations of you…
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 14 – The Darkness of Self-Blame

Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 14: The Darkness of Self-Blame “You need to stop blaming yourself for the things you can not change.” -AJA Blame is sneaky. Blame creeps in like a shadow if we aren’t aware of where our energy is. As we realize we…
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90-Day A Better Me Letters Series: Day 13 – Becoming Aware of How Blaming Affects My Life

Letters From A Better Me 90-Day A Better Me Letters Series Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 13: Becoming Aware of How Blaming Affects My Life Dear Blame, I’m ready to stay in awareness of how you affect my life. I’m open to see the dark energy…
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 13 – The Sharp Edges of Blame

Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 13: The Sharp Edges of Blame “Discontent, blaming, complaining, self-pity cannot serve as a foundation for a good future, no matter how much effort you make.” -Eckhart Tolle The sharp edges of blame are ready to cut at any time. No…
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 12 – The Layers of Shame

Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 12: The Layers of Shame “Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It’s the fear that we’re not good enough.” -Brené Brown We have spent from Day 7 until today on shame. We have looked at the subject of shame on…
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90-Day A Better Me Letters Series: Day 12 – Learning from My Layers of Shame

Letters From A Better Me 90-Day A Better Me Letters Series Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation DAY 12: Learning from My Layers of Shame Dear Self, I’m ready to learn from all the shame you’ve been holding onto. I’m ready to look at my past through a…
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90-Day A Better Me Letters Series: Day 11 – My Participation in the Shame Cycle

Letters From A Better Me 90-Day A Better Me Letters Series Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 11: My Participation in the Shame Cycle Dear Self, I’m committing to you to stay aware of my participation in the shame cycle. As I watch what is happening in…
