Tag: Fear
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Dear Fear: A Letter from A Better Me

Dear Fear, I know you have served me in the past and protected me at times. I thank you for your service in keeping me safe. The problem is now I don’t need protection like I did when I was a child. Living in your presence on a daily basis is holding me back. I…
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3 Ways to Remove the Clutter that Self-Abuse Creates

3 Ways to Remove the Clutter that Self-Abuse Creates Self-abuse is one of the many ways our self-hate, low self-esteem, lack of worth, and negative self-image manifest themselves. We create clutter both inwardly and outwardly when we don’t become self-aware of how we are treating ourselves. This doesn’t help us lead productive lives. This doesn’t…
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 43 – Perspectives of Truth

90-Day A Better Me Series Part II: A Journey of Perspective What Launches Us Forward: The Stable Foundation Day 43: Perspectives of Truth “We do not see things as they are, we see things as we are.” -Anais Nin We all bring a unique perspective to this life. Certain beliefs are ingrained in our…
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 30 – Anywhere but Right Here and Now

90-Day A Better Me Series Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 30: Anywhere but Right Here and Now “Do not dwell in the past. Do not dream of the future. Concentrate the mind on the present moment.” -Buddha The most efficient way to make us miserable is…
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 16 – Perpetuating the Blame Cycle

Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 16: Perpetuating the Blame Cycle “When you blame others, you give up your power to change.” -Robert Anthony It’s interesting to watch how we get caught in acts of blaming and shaming because of our expectations of others, sometimes without knowing…
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 6 – The Fear of Religion

Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 6: The Fear of Religion “Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.” -Yoda Some may think I’m crazy for writing this. Why? FEAR! Fear over religions trigger personal…
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 5 – The Choices We Make Living in Fear

Part I: Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 5: The Choices We Make Living in Fear “Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears.” -Les Brown We are a global community now. We can see events happening all over the world and the…
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 4 – How Fear Keeps Us from Experiencing Love

Day 4: How Fear Keeps Us from Experiencing Love “Love is what we were born with fear is what we learned here.” -Marianne Williamson Whether we are talking about romantic relationships, family, friends, or strangers fear keeps us from experiencing love. We like to pretend that by fearing for others and/or their actions we…
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90-Day A Better Me Letters Series: Day 3 – The Power of Fear

Letters from A Better Me 90-Day A Better Me Letters Series Part I: A Journey of Awareness What Holds Us Back: The Unstable Foundation Day 3: The Power of Fear To the Fear Within Me, I feel you stirring inside me. When I watch the news you are there as my stomach clinches up and…
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90-Day A Better Me Series: Day 3-The Power of Fear

Day 3: The Power of Fear “If you catch yourself in the track of fear, just by having that awareness, you can shift your attention into the track of love.” – Don Miguel Ruiz, The Mastery of Love p. 71 Fear-based thinking is a dangerous way to live. We are…
